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Post by Lieutenant V'Tira on Sept 13, 2019 11:11:51 GMT -5
V'Tira sits back and allows her hands to drop back to her lap.
"Perhaps, However it is more probable it was merely both of your faults to a degree..." She shrugged.
"A simple miscommunication is all"
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Post by Lieutenant Veeri Relidia on Sept 13, 2019 11:21:42 GMT -5
"Do you think I should call her? What should I even ask her?"
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Post by Lieutenant V'Tira on Sept 17, 2019 14:28:33 GMT -5
V'Tira quirked a brow at this. "At what time did i suggest that you should call this person?"
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Post by Lieutenant Veeri Relidia on Sept 17, 2019 14:50:51 GMT -5
"You did not? I'm just asking if I should... I have been considering it for a while, but... she is always busy, and I don't even know how to start the conversation?" Veeri rambled, clearly worried by whatever scenarios played out in her head.
"Does one even ask "Don't you find me attractive anymore?" I don't wish to offend her. She's so wonderful and I value her so much, and I don't want to stress her out, or make her sad, or angry... I just want her to remember I exist..."
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Post by Lieutenant V'Tira on Sept 18, 2019 13:24:17 GMT -5
V'Tira shakes her head. "No Veeri...do not be /that/ woman...do not make such a call."
"You must resist this urge."
"You do not wish to be that woman."
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Post by Lieutenant Veeri Relidia on Sept 18, 2019 13:26:25 GMT -5
"-That- woman? The one who calls? Well... what am I supposed to do then?" She pursed her lips thoughtfully.
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Post by Lieutenant V'Tira on Sept 18, 2019 13:38:21 GMT -5
"Well I again reiterate, You do not make that call..." V'Tira repeated before another sip of her wine.
"You do not wish to come across as needy or pathetic, such traits are not desired in the mate or partner of such a casual relationship."
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Post by Lieutenant Veeri Relidia on Sept 18, 2019 13:40:59 GMT -5
"I guess... is it really needy if last I heard from her was before Risa? And the last thing we did anything even remotely sexual was... um... more than half a year ago? I... kind of think I have the right to feel abandoned?" Veeri seemed to be gaining a small bit of confidence, at least, even if quite unsteadily.
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Post by Lieutenant V'Tira on Sept 20, 2019 12:10:16 GMT -5
V'Tira considered all of this and canted her head regarding her friend.
"I believe the time lapse from last point of contact might be telling in and of itself Veeri." She said evenly. "The time since you last shared sexual encounter even more so..."
"I am not belabored by such emotions, however were I to allow such a thing, Yes....yes you are in your right to feel such levels of abandonment conducive to the level of endearment to one another that was shared in this casual pairing."
"I do not believe if I recall your description of this arrangement that there was any indication of continued commitment..."
She did however add. "A call, yes would have been more considerate from this person to remain in touch, or to let you know the situation has changed."
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Post by Lieutenant Veeri Relidia on Sept 20, 2019 13:03:49 GMT -5
"I'm sorry, V'Tira... I really don't mean to rant on you. Let us just try and enjoy the rest of our evening? It's not like I get to have dinners with anyone other than Xylvarenn and my roomie... I don't want to ruin your mood." Veeri gave a little defeated smile. "And I will deal with my silly little issues some other way."
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Post by Lieutenant V'Tira on Sept 20, 2019 13:58:59 GMT -5
V'Tira quirked a single brow. "I am in no distressed by such a discussion."
"It can be most useful to vent in such a manner...and I do not mind listening." She shakes her head. "If you prefer boldness to my current level of advice..."
She eyed Veeri playfully.
"Why not call this person now? This instant?"
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Post by Lieutenant Veeri Relidia on Sept 20, 2019 15:09:15 GMT -5
"But... I would not even know what to say... besides, what if she's ashamed of me? Or what if she gets super angry I told you and ruins our careers?!" The trill rambled out rapidly in a nice example of her motor mouth.
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Post by Lieutenant V'Tira on Sept 27, 2019 10:37:29 GMT -5
V'Tira nods at each question and waited a long moment and one more sip of her wine before asking....
"Veeri can you not hear yourself?" She canted her head as she regarded her friend. "Ashamed of you? Why? are you this poor of a sexual partner for her to be ashamed of? WHy would such a relationship ruin your careers? How could it possibly do so?"
"Also...does any of this, in fact sound like a healthy relationship to you?"
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Post by Lieutenant Veeri Relidia on Sept 27, 2019 12:07:35 GMT -5
"No... not really? Then again, it's not a relationship... it's just a... thing? And she has made it very, very clear she wants it to remain a secret. And I had never gone against that wish of hers before, so I don't really know how she'd act if I broke my promise... and..." Veeri just shrugged helplessly.
"I guess I'm just scared to lose her? Or well... it's clear I've lost her? I just don't want to lose my chance to repair it..."
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